Silence is often the answer

Hello to all,
all over Italy as you know by now we are all stuck at home for the Covid19 emergency. This ensures that many people get nervous because they see their lives getting stuck, their work stopped and they are unable to unload what they accumulate. Well, the result of all this was a verbal attack on me today without me doing absolutely nothing. I was even told that I am unable to hold a conversation in a civilized way.

Well even if I am the last to be able to do it, I give you all an advice, when someone behaves in this way towards you, it is not unwise to get up and go away. When you are aware that whoever is in front of you does not understand what is said to him rather than arguing with that person who will misunderstand and look beyond because he always thinks he is on the side of reason without ever trying to really understand someone, as if the ears were serving as an ornament to your head, get up and go away.

It does not mean giving up on the accusations and falsehoods that this person says without fighting but being more intelligent for understanding what kind of person he is. It is not always worth fighting, if someone treats you badly it is not always up to you to explain to him what he did wrong; often he has to understand it for himself because if you don't listen, no explanation can make sense.

Good night to all

IF

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too:
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream-and not make dreams your master;
If you can think-and not make thoughts your aim,
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same:
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss:
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings-nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much:
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And-which is more-you'll be a Man, my son!

(Kipling Rudyard)

My first 3 years as volunteer in Italian Red Cross

Hello boys and girls,

three years ago is started a big travel for me called "Red Cross".

10 December 2016 - 10 December 2019

When I was a child I watched on television those people who brought help to disaster sites. I had only one thing in mind, I would have liked to go and help those people and bring some joy and joy. For years I looked for a way to do it but I couldn't find it until a friend of mine talked to me about the Red Cross and so I caught the ball and tried. 

To realize my dream I tried to train myself as much as I could but today I believe that you can never learn enough and you are never prepared enough. I believed from the beginning of my training in the 7 principles that unite all the Red Cross volunteers in the world, the most beautiful thing I saw in every service and how we all smile, and today this is a rare thing. If you can do something that makes you smile and feel good. Today is the moment, don't let others do what you could have done but didn't want to do. 

This is what accompanies me every day as a volunteer. Probably my dream will never come true but I am happy anyway with what I have done up until now only pushed by the spirit of helping and not earning and making money on it. To me and to all my traveling companions, near and far, I send my best wishes for this meeting achieved together "Our first 3 years in the Italian Red Cross"

IF THE MAN IS NOT ABLE TO LOVE HIS BROTHERS, HE IS LOST

I don't like the society where i live sometimes

Ercolano (Personal photo)
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Today I will try to talk about myself for the first time in many years. I spent my whole life covering my fragility in the world and my family so as not to have to give sorrows, to create a strong mask that would defend me from the world. The truth is only one: I do not like the current society in which I live, I do not like how we should act in order to arrive at a result and who you should become in order to be considered someone. Our society does not appreciate real and loyal people as much as it wants to make them believe they despise it and if it could crush them, it often does. A person becomes "a beautiful person" only after his disappearance and this is neither fair nor fair for a human being. It is true that I find it difficult to find my place in the world and I will always have it because "I do not want to become what society wants me to be", I do not want to compromise nor to accept facilities from anyone because it would make me feel obliged . I want to be who I am and I don't want to apologize to myself for being someone I don't like.

Good night guys... Have a nice day

Welcome back

Hi boys and girl...
finally I am back after some years. I decided to restart this blog, also if maybe it is not so interesting for anybody, to share my real life with you from the beginning. The idea is to create a space where anybody can ask me what want to know about me and I'll do the possible.
Let's start from today.

I am Mary and This was not so the best day for me. Some year ago i decided to restart my engineering studies and now i am three exams till the end so I would study today but I didn't. It is not a good period for me but I try everyday to smile and to go on better as possibile. Anyone have to do in this way. Life is one and we have one shot to live it so Live it better is possible.

Have a good night guys
I love you
Kisses

 

My life in Italy

Hello to everybody, it is a lot of time that i don't write on this blog..i am so sorry but my life now is in Italy and not in Denmark anymore,my erasmus is finished,so the time is never enough...Any way my italian life is started and i am always busy.I travel from my town to go to Naples to follw the courses every day and i started to teach mathematics for the people that request it(private lesson) and i go to do fitness and dance...I don't lost time and i am in internet just in the night before to go to sleep...but i will try for now to post on the blog every day... Today was a good day...i had fun...really! I studied a bit this morning,at 15 i teach mathematics until 17e30,after i went to see a stage with the big etoilè of opera Raffaele Paganini,i went to help my mother to work...and now i am here!!!the last summer in my town it was the festivity of the hunting...it was funny...there were dogs,archers,hawks....i can show u some pictures....

to finish i wonna send just a message for my best friend Janine... i miss you...a lot...kisses!!!